Are You Helping Others Find Their Mojo?

Webster broadly defines mojo as a magical charm. In this article, I may be stretching the definition a bit further, because I happen to believe that everyone has talents and creative abilities that can seem almost magical to others. So, when I speak of mojo, I am referring to a potential that resides within each of us. We don’t always use that potential, or even know that we have it, though. So, sometimes we need encouragement and some instructions to put that potential to use, which is what this article is about.

What got me to thinking about this is a surprise call I received a couple of days ago from Buster B Jones. Buster, the best guitar picker in the world, or certainly one of the very best, called to see if I had gotten out of my guitar-picking slump. I had mentioned to him a couple of months ago that I was in a slump, just not playing very much, and playing the same old stuff whenever I did play. I told him I hoped my new Godin would inspire me to pick a bit more.

And he actually remembered that, and called to encourage me. I can’t tell you how much that means to me, to be personally encouraged by such an incredible guitarist. Part of the reason Buster did this is because he loved my Dad, and knows my Dad would not have wanted me to waste my talent. But, there is another reason, too.

Specifically, as we chatted a bit more, I realized that Buster helps a lot of people “find their mojo.” For example, he mentioned that he was getting ready to go to an elementary school to teach some kids how to play guitar. He carries in a couple of guitars, a mandolin, a fiddle, and so on, and puts on a show for them (all free, and just out of his generosity), and spends about 5 minutes with each kid showing them how to play guitar. He has set up a special tuning and special teaching technique to ensure that they can actually play something in such a short time.

Isn’t that fantastic? Of course that is inspiring to several of the kids, and many of them will later take up some sort of instrument and spend the time necessary to master it, because of the time he took to teach them and inspire them.

Buster is not only a master musician, he has a love for music and he spends some of his energy and time promoting it so that others can benefit from it as he has. Reminds me of Richard Feynman, who was not only a master physicist, but also loved physics deeply and taught it to others for their pleasure in learning it.

Thinking about this got me to thinking about whether I am doing enough to help others find their mojo. The answer is: I am not doing nearly enough.

So, I need to think about how to do better. I mention this to you in case you need to think about whether to do better also.

Your thoughts?


 

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  • http://www.kristarella.com kristarella

    Thoughtful post, causing me to think too!

    It’s is sooo easy to live a small enclosed life. Apart from two photo shoots I had this week I stayed at home inside: preparing for the shoots and then processing photos… So, I wasn’t being lazy, but I got pretty wrapped up in doing that stuff and not much else. Apart from some time on the Thesis forums I didn’t spend a lot of time helping others and I should have just popped them an email, an SMS, a card in the mail.

    We spend so much time in our own lives that it’s unique to get a nice message out of the blue, and we don’t give them often enough either, but even small things count. Maybe not for everyone, but hopefully you can show wisdom in who you encourage and make even a small effort for the people who need it or appreciate it.

    On a related, yet tangential note: I too want to kick start my guitar playing a bit! I’ve been on a plateau for several years. I play at church, but only chords and rhythm stuff. My music reading ability has suffered a lot from only reading the chord letters and not the music. So many things to do, never enough hours in the day. ;)

  • http://www.keenerliving.com/ Bruce Keener

    @kristarella, Glad you are playing guitar at church … that’s a great use of your talent. Thanks for the comment!

  • http://www.zen-moments.com John Rocheleau – Zen-Moments

    I can relate to slumps Bruce. Been in far too many myself. Sometimes when I am in a deep one I tend to become self-centered. I turn in on myself and my life goes nowhere in response.

    At times like that it’s difficult to see and access the magic or mojo within me. It seems far easier to see the magic in others when I am in that zone. But what I have found is: if at that time, I help another person find their mojo, my own magic is fired up in response.

    The magic we feel within ourselves and others is all one. I think it flows like a river through humanity; sometimes below the surface. It doesn’t seem to matter where we jump in — it leads to the same ocean.

    John